Say what you say.

So this weekend SUCKED...Let me explain why....

One of my really close girlfriends is getting married and she had her bachelorette party this weekend.  I would have gone all weekend however with work, our new puppy, Caden's schedule and lack of funds I drove up Saturday to be with her.  I left super early so I could spend as much time as possible.  When I got there everyone was leaving to go to brunch so I put my stuff away and off we headed.  All throughout lunch a girl at the table kept making comments about people being "judgemental, fake, unwelcoming etc".  Well let me back up so you all understand a bit better...

Another bridesmaid and myself threw our friend a bridal shower a few weeks ago.  During the process of the shower there was a particular girl there that kept saying things about my friend that were complimentary. Her and I had spent an hour getting her ready and she looked beautiful.  According to this loudmouth she didnt even know who this girl was and she wanted the old one back.  Whatever...that was just the first of many...So, then during the time she is opening her presents this girl is in the kitchen gossiping, not even watching her open her presents.  Finally I looked at the other bridesmaid and said "she knows she is opening up presents right?" I mean come on...you go to a bridal shower to basically shower the bride with love and attention right?!  So, then after the shower ..after all the parents, grandparents etc left ...she exclaims..."yes now I cant start talking about "insert male genetalia reference here"...I have never met this girl in  my life mind you...I dont know her..I dont care what you talk about really but, not around the mothers, grandmothers, children...So then the bride starts to tell everyone what she wants to do for her bachelorette party .."nothing crazy..I just want to have a fun relaxing weekend with my friends"  then the loud one announces "what happened to YOU...what should we bring our bibles" she then proceeds to talk about "screwing womens husbands, because no one can trust her in a room with their husband etc" I finish up washing the dishes and proceed to help the bride load all of her gifts and loud my dishes in the car...As soon as I grab my purse to leave she starts cheering...(really?  was I that much of a problem for you...when t he whole time I just kept my mouth shut?) obviously I was and she was pretty happy about me leaving.  So ..fastfoward two weeks to this weekend.  So were at lunch and shes talking about unwelcoming and fake people the entire time at lunch.  She made is very obvious she want to have nothing to do with even acknowleging my prescense and continues to talk about me while im sitting in front of her.  Ok so I deal with it whatever its not about her its about the bride.  Then we go down to the spa and she decides to not partake in any conversation I am trying to be part of and she mutters something and falls asleep.  The 2 hours I spent in the spa were the best two hours I had all weekend.  So after the spa some of the girls stayed to "wake her up" as the bride and her SIL went up to start getting ready for dinner.  So after we are ready for dinner the rest of the girls come in the room and we round up to call taxi, etc...She storms out of the room..comes back 10 minutes later to say "my dad says I cant punch a bitch in her face"  someone else says what? who? she says you know who.  She is looking in our room...and I know I am who she is talking about.  I decide I am almost 30 I am staying back in the room.  I dont need to spend money and time on dinner with someone who continues to think im a "fake bitch" in her opinion when she doesnt even know who I am.  Other outside drama ensues that I could go into but, since I wasnt out there I dont want to explain it as I may say something that is wrong.  But, I went  to bed...read a book and was on my way home first thing in the morning.  Needless to say...I have no idea why I was hated on?  I have no idea why she considers me fake...Why she thinks I have that much of an influence on the bride that she is also fake around me.  I have never talked to this girl in my lifetime and the bride I have known since 4 years old.  So, if you want to compare who knows the real version of herself that would be me.  But, anyways...crappy weekend...time to get back to work...but, I feel better getting it all out there. Im also pretty sure I made God proud by standing my ground and turning the other cheek.  In the end his opinion is all that matters