I have only begun to plan my wedding and already problems arise...So I thought maybe I would take a moment to say the things I wish I could say...That I dont
#1. I will have whoever I want to have in my wedding, Period...End of story..This is my wedding, My bridesmaids, My Maid of Honor and I will choose so
#2. I will never choose a dress that will make by "butt" look too "big" do you really think I have that kind of fashion sense really?
# 3. This is Mine and Cj's wedding and we will choose who we want to invite or not invite. We do not want people we do not know...or that we do not enjoy their company. This is a day about the unity of our family. Not about the "production" of our wedding.
#4. Again this is mine and CJ's wedding and We will choose what food we want to eat regardless of what anyone else thinks..I will pick something that everyone will like but, its our choice
# 5. I am not pregnant. No matter how many times people think we are rushing this because I am pregnant this is not why. We are not rushing it. 8 Years and 4 months to me is not rushing the situation. Really? If you really knew me dont you think if I was pregnant that I would be excited about it and share it with the whole world. Yes
#6. I will not pick something unflattering to my bridesmaids EVER. SO please you lame bridal stores come up with something decent that they would be glad to wear! I want them to look pretty like the are.
# 7. If I want no roses at my wedding, there will be no roses...No matter how traditional they are I dont want them. If there are roses at my wedding I might go CRAZY. They are the one flower I dont like
# 8. Believe me. I will do what I want to do regardless of what anyone says...and to be honest the only one that has any input in my planning is the Groom, & anyone who puts money into this wedding, but, at the end of the day...this is about us...CJ Caden & I and I just wish people would be happy for us and stop asking all these crazy questions and give me your opinion if I ask...Before then please dont tell me.
PS. Unless I reach my breaking point I probably wont tell anyone directly on how I feel about this whole thing. But, to everyone who has been supporting and excited for us...I really appreciate it...Those who havent and have made backhanded comments...Hmmm..Well keep them to yourself
1 comment:
Totally agree. Don't let other people tell you how your wedding should be. If you want something non-traditional, go for it! It's YOUR wedding and YOUR memories that you're going to have forever. So do what makes you happy!! :)
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